why is the search 4 the perfect mate cause so much pain?

Subject:	why is finding that 1 pearson can be such heartache???
Body:	wHY IS IT THE ONES WE LOVE MOST ARE THE ONES THAT ALWAYS END UP HURTING US? WHY IS IT WHEN U TRUELY LOVE SOMEONE, u cant find the words 2 make her realise how u feel? Why is it When u let ur guard down& reveal ur true side, they take u 4 granted, and use you 4 all ur worth and then discard u like yesterdays newspaper??? heres a piece of advice 4 everyone, b4 u persue someone that u already have strong feelings 4, stop & think of how it might just ruin things 2 the point of no return AND WHY IS IT THE ONE WE WANT 2 SPEND THE REST OF OUR LIVES WITH, DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WAY??? DO U KNOW HOW MUCH HEARTACHE THAT IS???(ITS UNFUCKING BAREABLE) SO B4 YOU GO OUT AND GIVE LOVE A TRY MAKE SURE THE PEARSON UR TRYING IT WITH IS ON THE SAME PAGE, CUZ IF NOT, THEN WHAT WAS ONSE A THING OF BEAUTY CAN BE SOMETHING U CAN't EVEN RECOGNISE ANYMORE

not that i have had this kind of trouble recently, but its a question thats always running through my head@ random times, if i knew the answer id be married as well as rich! But somethings are just better left unanswered i guess!! if anyone does have the answer id love 2 hear it!